Browse Items (83 total) Browse All Browse by Tag Search Items Browse Map Tags: interior of 2 Sort by: TitleCreatorDate Added Mariana, Yoanna and Febroina – Mallawi, Upper Egypt Mariana was circumcised on the same day as her sister and a dozen of young girls taken to the same house, one day after school. There, they were circumcised one after the other by a local da’ya (a village midwife). « Everybody was screaming, some girls tried running away… It was absolutely awful, and we weren’t even told what was happening except that it was for our own good ! » But a decade ago, Father Aghethaton, the coptic priest of the village, started militating against that practice. Through preaches at the church, awareness sessions and discussions with the mothers of the village, he slowly started eradicating that practice. His successor is now following his path, while almost half of the women of that community has supposedly abandoned the practice. Social pressure and religious arguments are often the two main barriers to the eradication of FGM. Chloe Sharrock Marsa and Barbara Anna –El Bashra, Upper Egypt Marsa also comes from a Coptic community, where circumcision is still widely spread. When she was inflicted with FGM at a young age, she suffered from severe bleeding, and had to remain in bed for more than a week. Complications such as infections, HIV or severe bleedings are common in such rurale areas where FGM is practiced with non sterilized razor blades or knives. Tales of women being told to sit in buckets of hot water to heal the wound is also regularly recalled, attesting of the absolute lack of medical attention these young girls receive. While growing up, Marsa couldn’t get rid of the trauma and the fear of that event. Thankfully, women in her village were slowly giving up on that tradition following the public discourses of the local priest taking position against that practice. Chloe Sharrock Umm Malek and Malek – Qalanfil, Delta of Egypt Umm Malek lives in a small muslim village in the Delta of Egypt. She got circumcised at 10 years old and remains profoundly scared by the trauma of that day. « You can easily forget what you’ve eaten on that day, or how the weather was. But you can’t forget the trauma, the pain… » Malek is now fully conscient of the long term consequences of such practice on her mental health as well as in her married woman’s intimate life. « What we tend to ignore is that many divorces happen because of that barbarian practice. Women and men come become unsatisfied, it leads to a lot of frustration and anger. ». After giving birth to a daughter, she started attending awareness sessions lead by a local NGO in a nearby village. The consequences she was facing herself combined to these sessions convinced her for good that she couldn’t perpetrate that practice on her daughter. « I simply couldn’t inflict such misery to my own daughter. I want her to be happily married. » At first, women of her village pressured her to circumcise Malek, threatening that she would never get her daughter married if she didn’t. « But I took these women to the awareness sessions with me, and since then, five of them decided to not cut their daughters ! » Chloe Sharrock Irine and Monika – El Bashra, Upper Egypt Irine comes from a small Coptic village in Upper Egypt. She was circumcised one day after school, when she was 12 years old. She doesn’t have much memories of it, but says she’s still deeply traumatized by the violence of the event. She got married at a young age, and gave birth to six kids. Two of them died during the delivery. Consequences of FGM are indeed going way beyond psychological trauma, since obstetrical complications can occur to the victims, such as post-partum hemorrhage, need of episiotomy, tearing of the tissues or flesh, while the rate of death among new born babies is higher. After the birth of her first daughter, she had long discussions with her husband about FGM. « He actually supported my choice, I think he understood it didn’t have anything to do with religion and could only arm Moneka. His family, however, didn’t accept our choice, and still pressure us today. » Chloe Sharrock Azza Lina Geoushy Badreya Lina Geoushy Enaiat Lina Geoushy Saadeya Lina Geoushy Noha Lina Geoushy Wafaa Lina Geoushy Hala Nammr / 54 years old, Once I bought a very nice dress that I liked. After I bought it and tried it at home again, I immediately took it off and gave it to my daughter because I realized that I will not be able to wear it in Cairo. The dress was backless and I knew I will not feel comfortable wearing it, unless I was in a country other than Egypt. In a different place, I would wear it without hesitation. Roger Anis Hala Nammr / 54 years old, Once I bought a very nice dress that I liked. After I bought it and tried it at home again, I immediately took it off and gave it to my daughter because I realized that I will not be able to wear it in Cairo. The dress was backless and I knew I will not feel comfortable wearing it, unless I was in a country other than Egypt. In a different place, I would wear it without hesitation. Roger Anis Fatima Ali / 25 years old, Going out of my house is such an adventure that I go through every day and I'm ready for it. There is not a single time that I go out in the street without being harassed but it never stopped me from wearing what I like. I believe I'm different and I know that people see me as different and I'm working on letting them respect that I'm different. I got a lot of harassment because of my skin colour; I always hear sexual suggestive because I'm black, which doesn't really annoy me. Yet, one of the things that really annoys me is when someone spits on me because of my skin colour, which already happened a lot of times. The hardest situation I had to go through was when I was walking in the street in Downtown and a child with his mom shouted at me: "Hey you black girl with dirty hair." I had my Rastas and responded to his mother saying that it would be good if you teach him how to behave, but then they gathered around me and started beating me. They repeated harassing and annoying me so many times afterwards and it started to annoy me because I was passing by the same street where they also live, but still I refuse to respond to violence with violence. All of this happened only because I had Rasta dreadlocks, which was strange for society. Some time later after this incident I shaved my head, but people still annoy me in the street because of my skin colour. Roger Anis In this March 30, 2019 photo, Umm Yasser offers tea to during a women's only circle between tourists and Bedouin women from the Hamada tribe at her home in Wadi Sahw, Abu Zenima, in South Sinai, Egypt. Nariman El-Mofty In this March 30, 2019 photo, women eat in Umm Yasser's home in Wadi Sahw, Abu Zenima, in South Sinai, Egypt Nariman El-Mofty In this March 30, 2019 photo, a Bedouin woman wears traditional clothes and dances for women in Umm Yasser's home in Wadi Sahw, Abu Zenima, in South Sinai, Egypt. Nariman El-Mofty In this March 31, 2019 photo, Umm Yasser poses for a photograph in her home in Wadi Sahw, Abu Zenima, South Sinai, Egypt. Nariman El-Mofty In this March 30, 2019 photo, shows the kitchen in Umm Yasser's home in Wadi Sahw, Abu Zenima, in South Sinai, Egypt. Nariman El-Mofty In this March 29, 2019 photo, Zahra, right, looks at Yolanda the baby goat in Umm Yasser's home, in Wadi Sahw, Abu Zenima, in South Sinai, Egypt. Nariman El-Mofty In this March 29, 2019 photo, Umm Yasser, closes the windows of her home, in Wadi Sahw, Abu Zenima, in South Sinai, Egypt. Nariman El-Mofty Untitled Sabry Khaled Untitled Sabry Khaled Untitled Sabry Khaled Nobody thinks about how technology frees people to express themselves, to love and to be loved; how a girl who has made peace with her body can give confidence to a girl on another continent, even if just a little bit. Heba Khalifa My father was away, always traveling. The last time I met my ex-boyfriend, I realized how much he resembles my dad. I also realized that when I loved him, I was trying to forgive my father. Heba Khalifa Untitled Heba Khalifa I choose my path. I want to make different choices than my mother made, but her voice still resonates in my ears, "See, I told you, you will not be able to do it." Heba Khalifa Untitled Heba Khalifa As I am about to get married, I fear being bound by the institution of marriage, repeating my mum's history, losing my independence, losing the spark and living a life that revolves around housekeeping. Heba Khalifa My mother wants me to do everything exactly like her, according to her way. It makes me feel that she sees me only as an extension for her body. Heba Khalifa Untitled Heba Khalifa My grandmother made curtains by hand. They were suitable for her. But not for me. Heba Khalifa "If we are going to marry, you need to get plastic surgery." Heba Khalifa They called me "mother of the unborn" in my hometown because I am sterile. I tried a lot and waited for many years. In my lifetime, the only birth I witnessed was my own. Heba Khalifa Untitled Heba Khalifa In my house, I cannot go out as I want, cannot call whomever I want, am not allowed to learn music. I feel I am just something on the shelf at home. Heba Khalifa I have had horrible headaches since I was seven. At my new school, mates rejected the dark skinned intruder who thought about things differently. I hated being different – inside and out. Heba Khalifa I cannot see well, and my friends used to call me "the girl with four eyes." As a result I grew up feeling I can neither see nor be seen by the world. Heba Khalifa Untitled Heba Khalifa I wait for my period. Although it is something I dislike very much, having my period means that I am not pregnant and I won't have to go through another abortion here in Egypt. I don't even want to imagine this situation in this country. It scares me to death. Heba Khalifa I have spent my whole life trying to love myself. My body is heavy. I am detached from my soul. I am in the desert in my own home, empty of intimacy and feeling. Heba Khalifa I am a single mother. My daughter and I are one. She is always with me. Any lover I might have must love my daughter more than me. So I cannot easily find a lover. My life is overloaded. I work six days a week and am all over the place doing acrobatics to be able to provide shelter to my daughter. Heba Khalifa Untitled Mohamed Ali Eddin Untitled Mohamed Ali Eddin Untitled Mohamed Ali Eddin Untitled Mohamed Ali Eddin Ali et sa mère Denis Dailleux Mohamed et sa mère Denis Dailleux Boutros et sa mère Denis Dailleux Mohamed et sa mère Denis Dailleux Browse All Browse by Tag Search Items Browse Map Tags: interior of 2 Sort by: TitleCreatorDate Added Output Formats atom, dcmes-xml, json, omeka-xml, rss2
